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Please arrive at the scheduled venue on time. Sessions will not be extended due to lateness. I will send you all of the information required about the venue and entrance ahead of the session. Please ensure that you are showered and clean on arrival. Shower facilities will be provided if necessary but will be included in your session time. Please ensure that you have the balance ready on arrival.
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I will always greet you as an equal and will lead you into the subspace, creating a seamless transition and aiming to put you at ease. During the session I operate a traffic light system that we can both use to check in. Within the session I tend to stay within the scene and check in creatively while maintaining the atmosphere and dynamic. The final 15 minutes of the the session will be focused on aftercare and leading you out of the sub space.
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I will happily accept thoughtful gifts and tributes from my clients. As well as a gift list on Throne I also love receiving flowers, champagne and Barolo red wine, or any gift that you have put thought and care into.
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Like everyone I have my own limits and boundaries that I regularly check in with. At the moment I do not offer sessions that include blood, excessive marking/scarring, or scat as hard limits.
I will always respect your limits and I expect the same in return.
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My preferred venues are a luxury BDSM venue in Edinburgh city centre and a secluded BDSM retreat space located in the Forth Valley.
All venue information will be sent to you in the days prior to the booking.
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I will always aim to put you at ease at the start of the session. Prior to the session we will discuss boundaries and limits as well as wants and desires. Within the session I use a traffic light system that I check in with and that you can use at any time. As your top, your safety is my responsibility.
Consents can be withdrawn by either party at any time. My own safety is paramount to me, which is why clients must provide a contact number and pay their deposit electronically. If I suspect you have interacted with alcohol or substances before the session it will not go ahead. Alcohol and substances alter perceptions, which impact your own safety and understanding of your body and can impact your decision making.
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I am incredibly versatile and cater to a variety of submissive styles and kinks. I particularly enjoy working with individuals who hold a lot of tension and responsibility in their lives, I offer them a space to hand over that power to me, to let me make their decisions for them and giving them the relief of simply being.
I do also enjoy restraint and CBT, personal service and foot worship. If your kink is truly pleasing me you can show me through these.